Eat Don’t Compete with Jazmine DeWees

In this episode, Part 4 of the Blueprint of Becoming series, we explore the quiet, powerful invitation to repent and release what we were never meant to carry.  The theme of this episode coincides directly with the unorthodox format and laid back atmosphere in which the episode was shot. God is intentional and he met us on the beach. Whether it’s unforgiveness, offense, or emotional weight you’ve held for too long—God is calling you to return and rest in His peace. 
As I share how I’ve learned to take in the beauty around me and hand over the burden of bitterness, you’ll be reminded that repentance isn’t about shame—it’s about freedom. Repentance is about becoming in the way that you were meant to; the complexities journeying through simply being. Strengths, weaknesses and everything in between. I chose to shoot this episode where I was and God meant me where I was. When you choose to be in the mist of your offense, God will meet you right there. In the pain, God will meet you there. When it’s hard to forgive, God will meet you there. In spite of how you feel, God will meet you there. With folks almost knocking over the camera, with me not being formal in my approach, but simply "being"... The true blueprint of becoming is allowing God into the places that you think you have under control over. Because the truth is, we have no control. He is in control. Just welcome Him in, give him room to change the "room" and space to change your mind. Change your mind about offense and change your heart about forgiveness. He did it for me, so I know he can do it for you. And forgiveness isn’t letting someone off the hook—it’s setting yourself free.
🔹 Scriptures to Reflect On:
Matthew 6:14-15 – “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you…”
Ephesians 4:31-32 – “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger… forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Proverbs 19:11 – “A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.”
Isaiah 26:3 – “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Question of the Day:
Are you carrying the weight of unforgiveness in your life?
Community Challenge:
This week, take intentional time in prayer and reflection. Ask God to show you where offense or unforgiveness may still be lodged in your heart—and give it to Him. Let peace replace the pain and allow God to carry the heavy burden.

In this fourth installment of The Blueprint of Becoming, we dive deep into the life-changing power of intimacy with Christ. This isn’t just about knowing about God—it’s about being known by Him.
Tune in as we explore the transformational nature of true intimacy with Christ. Beyond surface-level faith, this conversation challenges you to examine whether you are walking in real friendship with God—or simply knowing about Him from a distance. We unpack the difference between head knowledge and heart transformation, the weight of obedience in cultivating closeness with God, and how reverence and trust form the foundation of spiritual intimacy.
You’ll hear reflections on the sobering realization that not everyone is a friend of God—and the grace that invites us into deeper communion with Him. Whether you’ve been walking with God for years or you’re just beginning to seek Him for yourself, this episode invites you to go deeper—to know and be known by the only One who truly matters.
Scriptural guidance: 
Moses face to face with God: Exodus 33:11-16
Coming close to God: James 4:8
Obedience & Trust: Hebrews 11
Prayer: I Peter 5:6-8
Fellowship: Acts 2:42 
QOTD: Do you know and are you known by God?
Community Challenge: Evaluate your circle
This is only Part 4 of The Blueprint of Becoming: God’s Process of Spiritual Architecture. Stay until the end of the series to receive your free devotional and reflective study guide, I can’t wait to share it with you guys.
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In this special episode of Eat Don’t Compete, I’m joined by the one and only Patricia Gaskins for a natural and genuine conversation about our identities in Christ and the beautiful, sometimes messy journeys of becoming.How many of us can admit we’re still on that journey? 🙋🏾‍♀️
From laughter to tears, we open up about how God's love has transformed us — how we’re no longer who we once were. We have fun and dive deep as we answer three key questions:
What are some contributing factors that help you identify who you are today?
Concerning identity, what would you say to your 15-year-old self?
Who are you [without mentioning the roles you play in life]?
I open this episode with one of my favorite quotes by Ralph Waldo Emerson:"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
We also discuss God’s purpose for our lives, reflect on the promise of Jeremiah 29:11, and stand firmly on the truth of Ephesians 1:5-9.
This conversation is as natural and unfiltered as it gets — the kind that would have happened whether the camera was rolling or not. It’s faith-filled, heartfelt, and packed with the kind of spiritual encouragement your soul needs right now.
Topics We Dive Into:
Identity in Christ
Faith vs. Feelings (again 🤷🏾‍♀️)
The foundation of who God created you to be
God as the architect of your true identity
Biblical truth for discovering your identity
Honest reflections on who we were — and who we’re becoming in Christ
Stay until the end for a little "soul food" — you don’t want to miss it.
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If you're passionate about growing in Christ, walking in biblical truth, and becoming who God created you to be, you're right where you belong. 🕊️
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